Looking for Love – May I get a Refill, please?


Sometimes we don’t see love. Sometimes we don’t feel love either. A lot of the time, if we search our hearts, we don’t find any love inside of us. At ALL.

Truth be told – we are all-too-often quite deficient in love.

1 Peter 1:22 Having purified your souls by your obedience to the truth for a sincere brotherly love, love one another earnestly from a pure heart.

via pixabay

                            via pixabay

One of the things I am going to work on with the Lord this year is my heart. As I mentioned yesterday, asking for God to purify our hearts and remove the pollutants of “self” out of there and then fill it with the glory of HIM, is absolutely crucial if we are to display the love of Jesus to others. He not only urges us to show that love to our fellow man, but He actually COMMANDS it.

Love is the goal of the Christian life – without it, we are completely lost. We cannot draw close to Christ if we are busy being hateful towards one another.

Hate takes up a lot of room. So does apathy.


I find that I have to look for love – to conjure it up with all my might most of the time. To bypass all the grime and dirt, we have to dig – I need a pretty large shovel, myself. Real love takes action and choice and is not something we should base on just feelings. If we base our actions upon only what we happen to feel that very moment, I fear the population of this planet would dissipate quite rapidly. And, well….I guess we are doing a pretty good job at taking our best shot at that very thing, aren’t we? Hurting one another seems to be the norm these days.

My love is just quite frankly, not sufficient. It doesn’t even score a C- in my opinion. That doesn’t exempt me from being called to show it though. And, according to Jesus, we are to display that love with flying colors!


What I really want is to feel it too. I want to truly feel love deep down in the bottom of my heart when I show it. That will never happen if I continue to rely on MY capacity to show love. For I am completely inadequate – most of us are.

It is only through Christ that we can love the way we are supposed to. Only HE is sufficient – only HE can fill us up with more of Himself to share with others in that loving way he admonishes us about.

1 John 4:7 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.

dearheart via Fanpop

dearheart via Fanpop

You see, friends….love is from GOD – God IS love. It doesn’t come from us at all. Although we are called to love with all our heart and all our soul, if we search for it within self, we will come up empty far too often. This is why there isn’t enough love in our world. Self reliance is a dangerous thing. I fall prey to it far too often.

God’s love IS enough. Ours is not.

9 “As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love. 10 If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love. 11 “These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full. 12 This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. John 15: 9-12

inlovewithJesus via Fanpop

         inlovewithJesus via Fanpop

When I reflect upon this verse, I see the need to abide in Christ’s love in order to be filled with Him and then be able to show it outwardly to others. We have to start there. We have to start with abiding in Christ and His love for us.

So, here’s the burning question: What does it mean to “abide”?

Abide –
To accept or submit to
to comply with
to remain faithful to
To dwell,
to sustain,
to withstand, (and yes, even to suffer)
to remain
to continue in
To await in expectation

That’s a tall order, isn’t it? Yet Christ tells us we need to do this and all else will flow outward from there.

So not only will I ask God to dump the darkeness of the day out of my heart and refine it and purify it continually, but I will abide in Him and ask for Him to give me a heart refill of His love and goodness as well.


For what good is an empty heart?

We can’t stop there. Just cleansing ourselves is not sufficient for us to be able to go out to the world and reflect the love of Jesus. We have to fill the empty space with HIM.

Make room for Jesus. Then spend time with Him. And your hearts shall be filled to the brim. There will be love ‘a plenty to go around ten times over.

God’s love never runs out. We need not ever run on empty.

Look for HIS love, my friends. Look for HIS love.

Psalm 13:5
But I trust in your unfailing love; my heart rejoices in your salvation.



2 thoughts on “Looking for Love – May I get a Refill, please?

  1. I struggle with this as well Anne. It is so easy to Love our families, our friends co workers. But when it comes to loving those that are not as lovable or as God said love your enemy is o hard. I can only hope to one day be able to acomplish this. I will continue to pray and work even when my pride intervenes.

  2. Aaah…Dear Myriam Girl – You are such a blessing and a true gift from the Lord. You know, I think of Jesus on the cross…after ALL He had been put through….being mocked, spit upon, denied, beaten repeatedly, flogged (His skin ripped about and bruised to the bone), and MORE. THEN, to be separated for a moment from communion with His Father, to take all of our sin, past, present, future upon HIMSELF. And what did He cry out at that moment? “Father…forgive them…for they know not what they do.” I can’t fathom having that kind of love for ANYone….EVER. But, God is big enough for us all. You are so right – we have to do our part and reach deep to help yank out the ugliness we feel at times…..but we have to pray for one another so as not to forget that it is the LORD’s hand that makes it all possible. Jesus loves you so much Myriam. And so do I. I feel spiteful, prideful, resentful, tired, complaining, sad, and a multitude of other things consistently getting in the way of love in my life. I am so thankful you read this post and I just know God will equip you….just like He always has…to do HIS wonderful and mighty will. You are a child of God…and He loves you SO!!! Blessings to you dear friend. Blessings to YOU!!!

    Anne 🙂

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